Documentality: Death Of A Pastor's Wife

Death Of A Pastor's Wife 8/10

So me and my lady watch this insane documentary called Death Of A Pastor's Wife on Netflix. I was trying to figure out how I was going to even write this because it's hard to talk about it without inserting my own thoughts. This is about a lady named Mica Francis who started going to this guy named John-Paul Miller's church when she was 13 years old. John-Paul was married with four children and also had a child from a previous relationship. He starts having an affair with Mica and he and his wife get separated. By the way, it wasn't as if this pastor admitted to this affair. His wife found messages on his phone and there is video of him laying on his lawn crying like a little bitch. I wanted to elbow drop him when I was watching this. So he starts being with Mica out in public and dating her. By the way Michael was this guy's babysitter as well. And his now ex-wife looks like Mica. It's very creepy.

So they started having an affair in about 2015 and Mica was 20 years old and John-Paul was 35. By the time they got married she was 23 years old. Now a little bit about Mica. She has a lot of siblings and comes from a single mother household and is very religious along with her family. There were a lot of times watching this where me and my lady were getting upset with everybody praying over matters that police or violent relatives should have been getting involved in. One of Mica's sisters even points out the age difference between the two of them and the fact that John-Paul was checking out her sister at a young age. So Mica singing in the church and everything seems perfect but a lot of weird things start coming to light. Mica seems to act normal and like everything is okay but behind the scenes there's a lot of nonsense going on. She gets his entire signature tattooed on herself. She also reveals to certain people that he demands sex four times a day from her and has been having her take to testosterone so she can have a higher sex drive. She also gets a boob job and it seems shortly after that she starts having some issues with her mental state. John-Paul is all up in her face filming her during these times in stead of, you know, being a concerned human/husband.

He becomes crazy possessive of her and has control over her medication and when she will and will not be locked into an institution. He sets it up so that her family can't even come and visit her without him there. I'm fast forwarding a bit but eventually there's video footage of Mica going to a store purchasing a gun, filling up her car at a gas station, and then heading out into the woods where she calls police to let her let them know that she's about to kill herself and to track her phone to find her body (her body is found not even close to her gun). After she is discovered to be dead this man gets up in front of his church after a fun lively sermon and pretty much just says "Hey Mica killed herself there'll be a service next week talk amongst yourselves afterwards." He also had them pray for her to hit rock bottom at one point. They show a lot of this guy's sermons and I don't know how a single person, unless you were a weird pervert would enjoy going to these services, get anything spiritual out of them. For people who do not know I already have a thing against religious people particularly religious men. I don't trust them.

I think that most of them are sneaky pieces of crap and use the bible to control people around them and their environment. Any man that ever says out loud to someone especially someone that they are married to that they are not doing their "wifely duty" by not sleeping with them isn't automatic piece of shit. There is no exception to this. If you can look at someone you say that you love and because they don't want to sleep with you for whatever reason and you say to them that they are not doing their wifely duty that woman needs to divorce you as soon as possible because you are a deviant person. No one is obligated to have sex with anyone no matter how long they have been together. Acting like your spouse is a fucking tool for you to use when you feel like it and she a villain when she doesn't want to. Maybe she tired. You might smell bad. She might just not wanna fuck you in particular, weirdo. My lady kept on saying that John-Paul was a literal demon. I can't argue with her about this. It's true. This guy still had people going to his church. I cannot believe I almost forgot to mention that a year after Mica was dead he got married to another woman. How did John-Paul meet this other woman?

This lady was married to a guy who was in the wheelchair and could not move from the neck down. She was his physical therapist. So she marries this guy and starts going to the church that John-Paul has and her husband doesn't want to go anymore because he says there's something off about him. He also suspects that John-Paul has a thing for his wife. So one day this man who can't move from the neck fucking down is found at the bottom of a swimming pool that was behind a locked gate. The first thing his wife does is call John-Paul. So she's hanging out the church more and eventually she and John-Paul start dating and then getting married. There is nothing about this man that's normal. His father was a pervert. And something that they left out of the documentary was that when John-Paul was about 19 he got in trouble for trying to mess around with two 14-year-old's. I absolutely do not understand how someone can be this evil and this bad and hide behind the banner of a church and still have people show up to listen to him speak. Almost every one of his sermons was about what women need to be doing. It was never about what an actual decent human being or a decent husband should be doing. It was focusing on what women need to do to make men happy. Fuck that.

This guy is a horrible piece of shit and he's not even in trouble for driving Mica to kill herself. He's in trouble for when he was cyber-stalking her and harassing her because there's video of him showing up to places that Mica was at and they found a tracker on her car. He posted nude photos of her on the internet. For whatever reason I don't know if it's because the state they live in or what he was not in trouble for those things while she was actually alive. So this was a crazy documentary and next month he's supposed to be going to court for the cyber-stalking stuff but that's not enough. People like this guy are pure trash. I don't know what mental issues his new wife has but I am sure they will not get better by living with him. It's just so crazy to me that somebody can cheat on their wife that they have multiple kids with sleep with this younger version of her, drive her crazy, and then cheat with someone who's quadriplegic husband is dead. There's something wrong with everybody in this town. Shoutout to her therapist and that blonde lawyer lady. They the MVP's of all this.

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